To control against the pull of one magnet to another magnet.

Who cares? Why do we care? What is it inside of us that drives us to be so consumed with caring about certain things? Letting go is so difficult. Allowing change is scary. Sitting on the sidelines and watching people do things you want to keep them from doing feels so wrong. Getting in arguments with friends is uncomfortable. Yet these are all things we have to go through, things that we sometimes have to put ourselves through. I don't know why or where or how they might affect you or be affecting you, but when they do you know, you just KNOW, what I'm talking about. We are such emotional beings, consistently needing reassurance and a connection to something or someone that can show us love. I am so very tired of constantly having to remind myself of certain things. Things I cannot change, things people do, things people have done to me in the past, things I have done. Why can't I learn? Why can't I learn to... let go.